Racist and ignorant coaches
I recently took my 3 year old daughter to Gymfinity in Ellesmere Port for a trial session, and unfortunately, the entire experience was an absolute disaster. Having since read some of the other reviews, I genuinely wish I had seen them beforehand, as I wouldn’t have bothered attending.
From the moment we arrived, there was no acknowledgement or consideration for children attending for the first time. My daughter had never participated in gymnastics before, yet there was very little introduction, reassurance or guidance to help her settle into an unfamiliar environment.
What concerned me immediately was the number of young children compared with the number of coaches. There appeared to be just two young coaches supervising a large group of three and four-year-olds. In my opinion, there should have been at least four members of staff to provide adequate supervision and support, particularly given the age of the children and the activities involved.
The children were briefly shown what to do and then expected to get on with it. During the very first activity, my daughter slipped between two benches and hit her mouth, injuring her lip and causing it to bleed.
What happened next was even more disappointing. One of the coaches clearly looked over, saw what had happened and then simply looked away without offering any assistance. I took my daughter over to the other coach, who appeared completely unsure of how to respond. I had to point out that my daughter was bleeding and needed ice. Her response was to ask whether I thought the incident needed recording in the accident book. Given that a 3 yr old had sustained an injury that and was bleeding during an activity, I would have thought that was fairly obvious.
Approximately 20 minutes later, the coach eventually approached me with the accident book. When I explained again how badly my daughter had hurt her lip, she looked at my daughter, who is mixed race, and asked, “Are her lips always that big?”
I was genuinely speechless. What an incredibly ignorant, inappropriate and insensitive comment to make about a child, particularly one who had just sustained an injury. Rather than showing concern for her wellbeing, the coach chose to question the natural appearance of my daughter’s lips. I found this deeply upsetting and completely unacceptable.
What makes this experience even more disappointing is that my eldest daughter attended Beth Tweddle Gymnastics in Widnes when she was the same age, and the experience was fantastic. The coaches were attentive, encouraging and professional, and the children were appropriately supported. Sadly, what we experienced at Gymfinity Ellesmere Port was a far cry from that.
I fully appreciate that accidents can happen in gymnastics, particularly with young children learning new skills. However, it is how staff respond to those accidents, the level of supervision provided and the way children are treated that really matters.
I left feeling incredibly disappointed, angry and concerned about the standard of care and supervision. A trial session should be a positive introduction to gymnastics, especially for a three-year-old experiencing it for the first time. Instead, my daughter left with an injured lip, and I left with absolutely no confidence in the staff.
I certainly won’t be returning, and based on our experience, I would not recommend this facility to other parents of young children.








