From Hiding to Honesty: How coaching helped me own my disability.
Before I started coaching, I was quietly struggling at work with the invisible weight of my hearing loss. Admitting that I couldn’t always follow conversations, missed part of meetings, or had to ask people to repeat themselves felt like admitting failure. So, I masked it. I pushed through. But underneath, my confidence was at an all time low.
Coaching changed everything. In my sessions with Pauline, I finally had space to name the pressure I was under since being diagnosed with hearing loss and wearing hearing aids. I began to realise how much I’d internalised the idea that asking for help or needing adjustments made me appear incompetent.
Through coaching I started seeing my hearing loss as a reality rather than a weakness. A reality that I could work with rather than against. I learnt to set boundaries, to communicate my needs clearly and to stop struggling in silence.
One of the biggest changes was in my confidence levels; I no longer walk into meetings dreading what I might miss - instead I go in knowing I have the tools at my disposal to support me and the right to ask for clarity without feeling embarrassed. I have the confidence once again to speak up and not try to be invisible. Ultimately, by being more open about my disability I feel more respected, not less.
Pauline’s ability to listen without judgement while still challenging me to confront uncomfortable truths has been invaluable in our sessions. She asked some tough self-reflective questions! The kind that really made me question the narrative I had been telling myself. Over the course of 12, monthly sessions, Pauline gave me the tools to learn approaches that will give me lasting confidence and clarity.
Coaching hasn’t just helped me accept my hearing loss, it helped me reclaim my voice professionally, feel confident in my ability to be successful in my role and become resilient to the daily challenges I face. More importantly, I’m no longer hiding a part of myself, and I can show up to work as the most honest version of me.
July 21, 2025
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