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TrustScore 3.5 out of 5

3.7

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Review summary

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Considering 165 reviews, most reviewers were somewhat happy with their experience overall. Many customers appreciate the staff, with specific individuals receiving high praise for their professionalism, helpfulness, and kindness. Reviewers also found the service to be great, highlighting the ease of connecting and chatting with people, the active and visual experience, and the comfortable atmosphere for conversations. The registration process is often described as fast and simple, allowing users to quickly explore the platform. However, some people were dissatisfied with the website and customer service, noting issues like photo upload failures, occasional freezing of the browser version, and a complicated interface for new users. There are also concerns about the site, with mentions of inactive profiles, automated responses, and difficulties reaching support.

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Staff

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Website

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Service

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Customer service

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User experience

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Rated 4 out of 5 stars

i met so many women on other sites and one that i thought was the one but in the end i was scammed and then i tried la date and fell in love with an angel we talked about marriage but its difficult be... See more

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Rated 5 out of 5 stars

These girls are so incredibly attractive. And so many photos. Excellent app. I wasn’t expecting such an active and visual experience. Profiles look real and chats don’t stall right away. I notice that... See more

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Rated 5 out of 5 stars

i'm not someone who opens up easily but something about typing it out makes it easier. had some really honest conversations here that surprised me

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Rated 5 out of 5 stars

Good opportunity to make a connection. I didn’t come here expecting instant results, but I liked that conversations actually had room to grow. It doesn’t feel artificial. One thing that confused me at... See more

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About La-date

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La-date

La-date is an online dating platform designed for those who believe that connection starts with an open heart and a curious mind. Whether you’re just starting out or rediscovering your romantic side, La-date offers a warm, welcoming space for thoughtful, emotionally grounded communication.

Each message on the platform is an invitation to connect with someone who values sincerity, openness, and gentle conversation. You’ll find people who appreciate emotional depth and enjoy taking the time to get to know someone through meaningful dialogue.

The experience is designed to feel natural and free from pressure. You can share your perspective, reflect on the moment, or simply enjoy the chance to be heard and seen. And along the way, you might just experience the quiet surprise of discovering something special when you least expect it.

La-date encourages emotionally safe, intentional interaction—perfect for those who want their next chapter to be rooted in presence, kindness, and possibility.

Feel the surprise of connection—join La-date today and explore what thoughtful communication can bring into your life.


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TrustScore 3.5 out of 5

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Rated 5 out of 5 stars

no notifications begging you to…

no notifications begging you to upgrade. just log in and chat.

May 15, 2026
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Reply from La-date

Hi Alan,

Thanks for the review, it helps us understand what matters most to our users.

Warmly,
Ava from La-date

Rated 3 out of 5 stars

The costs are to high for an individual…

The costs are to high for an individual to establish a relationship

October 23, 2025
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Reply from La-date

Hi James,

Paid features help us maintain a reliable and secure space for all users. Credits are only spent on the features you actively choose to use, so you stay in control of what you spend. For more details on how credits and packages work, feel free to reach out to our team at support@la-date.help.

Warmly,
Ava from La-date

Rated 5 out of 5 stars

don't write reviews usually

don't write reviews usually. but I'm happy after tonight's chat so. good site.

May 3, 2026
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Reply from La-date

Hi there,

Each review helps shape the platform, and we're grateful you took the time to leave yours.

Warmly,
Ava from La-date

Rated 1 out of 5 stars

If I could get zero Stars I would

If I could get zero Stars I would. I don't know that I believe any of these reviews. True this site is full of beautiful women. But most of them are there just to get you hooked in and continue to buy credits to speak to them. Mini tried to lure me with risque photos and internal site emails describing explicit sex acts . Credits are very expensive and only lasts a short period of time. And if you do find somebody special the site requires you to purchase at least 5,000 credits in other words spend anywhere from $2,000 and above before you can exchange information with another user. Claiming that it is to protect both parties. It also appears that only the men are charged. All the women I saw had photographs that appear to be professionally taken. It was unfortunate that I actually met somebody and we both wanted to communicate outside the site but were restricted in every way from doing so. Unless I purchased 5,000 credits. Credits start at something like 20 credits for $20. So you do the math. Of course there are deals for quantity purchases but it still gets very expensive. Compared to other sites, this site is a scam.

I recently received a response from La-date. And the only thing that was addressed was the explicit content of one of the users. That was not my biggest complaint. I'm an adult and explicit content I can deal with. The issue is the money scam! A user will have to pay anywhere from $1,500 to $2,000 before users can speak to one another freely without being monitored by the site. If two people decide they want to speak with each other that should be up to them not the site. It is clearly a money-making scheme to get $2,000 from the the mail of the two. To my knowledge women are not charged. This is an outrageous sum of money compared to other sites. If two people want to exchange personal information it should be up to them. We are all adults. I still believe this site to be nothing more than a money making scam targeting men as the victims.

May 18, 2026
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Reply from La-date

Hi Danny,

User safety is a top priority, and we have a strict zero-tolerance policy for fraud or misuse across the platform. All users are required to follow our Terms of Service, and many of profiles on our platform are verified to help maintain a safe environment for everyone. Any explicit or inappropriate content goes directly against our Community Guidelines, if you encountered anything of that nature, please report it directly through the platform or reach out to support@la-date.help. Keeping communication on-platform is a standard safety measure that applies to all users, and every credit goes toward features you personally choose to engage with.

Warmly,
Ava from La-date

Rated 5 out of 5 stars

she asked me what I was reading

she asked me what I was reading. turned out she'd read the same book. we talked about it all evening.

May 7, 2026
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Reply from La-date

Hi Jay,

That's wonderful to hear, hope the connection keeps growing into something truly special!

Warmly,
Ava from La-date

Rated 1 out of 5 stars

No way to see your own profile the way…

No way to see your own profile the way others see it. I'm optimising something I can't actually look at. Flying blind.

May 2, 2026
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Reply from La-date

Hi Zachary,

Our team is continuously working on improvements, and feedback like yours helps us prioritize. Feel free to share this directly at support@la-date.help so it can be passed along to the right team.

Warmly,
Ava from La-date

Rated 5 out of 5 stars

i'm not someone who opens up easily but…

i'm not someone who opens up easily but something about typing it out makes it easier. had some really honest conversations here that surprised me

May 2, 2026
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Reply from La-date

Hi Adam,

It's great to know you're enjoying your time here. Hope it continues to bring great interactions your way!

Warmly,
Aspen from La-date

Rated 5 out of 5 stars

Thanks Jessi

Jessi used way more time than necessary to make sure my questions and issue I understood completely.I been on this platform five years and no one else comes even close to the way Jessi helped me.

May 17, 2026
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Reply from La-date

Hi Curtis,

Jessi puts a lot of care into every interaction, glad it showed. Thanks for taking the time to mention it!

Warmly,
Aspen from La-date

Rated 5 out of 5 stars

it's fine and fun

it's fine and fun, exactly what I was looking for

May 7, 2026
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Reply from La-date

Hi Lucas,

Glad to know you’re having a pleasant experience on the platform!

Warmly,
Aspen from La-date

Rated 5 out of 5 stars

no weird copy paste openers

no weird copy paste openers. she wrote something real.

May 8, 2026
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Reply from La-date

Hi there,

Happy to hear the platform has been enjoyable for you!

Warmly,
Aspen from La-date

Rated 5 out of 5 stars

I put off joining for months because I…

I put off joining for months because I assumed it'd be like every other site. eventually gave in. it isn't like the others.

May 6, 2026
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Reply from La-date

Hi Spencer,

Thanks for taking the time to leave your feedback!

Warmly,
Aspen from La-date

Rated 4 out of 5 stars

I appreciate what the manager did for…

I appreciate what the manager did for me trying to resolve this issue thank you

May 7, 2026
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Reply from La-date

Hi Tony,

The team puts a lot into every interaction, really glad it came through for you!

Warmly,
Ava from La-date

Rated 2 out of 5 stars

Men have to spend buy 5000 credits to meet a lady.

I've been on Ladate for a long time. They bait you in for sure and want you to continue to pay. Especially for men who want to meet a lady on there site. I deleted my profile because I was informed that you have to spend 5000 credits before you can meet or exchange information to meet your dream lady. They don't tell you that at all when you sign up. It's costs the men alot each time you want credits. And they really don't want anyone to meet up or exchange information unless the paying men spend 5000 credits. Boycott Ladate now. Stop there cash cow.Beautiful ladies but to meet them you have to spend 5000 credits. Wow I was chatting with a very interested lady. And she even said that it is very difficult to give out any information to meet up. They will give you a few free credits to keep you and hope you spend when you are deciding to leave the site for good. The thing is. You haven't purchased 5000 credits to be able to exchange information to the lady you are interested in and she can't leave you information as well. There is no feature when you sign up saying you have to pay a certain amount to give out personal contact information.Also there is no credit purchase saying it either. Stop the lies please.You just want men to spend tons of money on your site. The prices are ridiculous.

May 8, 2026
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Reply from La-date

Hi Walter,

La-date is an online communication platform designed to help people connect in a safe and moderated environment. Certain communication policies and platform limitations are part of maintaining user safety, privacy, and compliance with our Terms of Service and Community Guidelines. Registration and basic access are available free of charge, while additional communication features may require credits depending on how users choose to interact.

We are always ready to help resolve any issue or situation you may have experienced. Please contact our support team at support@ladate.help if you would like your case reviewed further or need clarification regarding platform policies and communication features.

Warmly,
Aspen from La-date

Rated 5 out of 5 stars

quick polite response and further info…

quick polite response and further info to explain my question,

May 9, 2026
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Reply from La-date

Hi Bobbi,

Knowing the team's effort gets noticed makes all the difference, glad everything got sorted quickly.

Warmly,
Ava from La-date

Rated 1 out of 5 stars

The price of the credits are too expensive

I think the price of the credit is too high and you have to communicate with someone for a long time to even be able to get their information. I don’t like that part of you all website. I think you can learn if you are really into a person faster than what you claim that you will have to stay on the site for and to me I think you are all just trying to make money to keep people here that’s my honest opinion on that. I think you should un restrict when you can send personal information. I think you should be able to send the information anytime you want to Stop having to pay all the time just to talk to someone you really like and for that I don’t like your website. I wish it could b More cost-efficient for everyone because people are on strict budget just like me. I don’t know if anybody will read this, but I’m just telling you from my point of view how I see things on your website thank you.

September 23, 2025
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Reply from La-date

Hi Gun,

We appreciate you sharing your thoughts so openly, feedback like yours helps us understand what matters most to our users. Our platform is designed for online communication with a strong focus on user safety and transparency. Credits are only spent on the features you actively choose to engage with. If you have any questions or need assistance, our team is happy to help at support@la-date.help.

Warmly,
Ava from La-date

Rated 1 out of 5 stars

deleted it last Tuesday

deleted it last Tuesday. Spent a few days deciding if I'd missed anything. Concluded I hadn't. No regrets

April 15, 2026
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Reply from La-date

Hi Jay,

Sorry to see you go! If you ever change your mind, we'd be happy to welcome you back. Take care.

Warmly,
Ava from La-date

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