Great new way to meet people
This is a really cool way to meet new women. It's set up to be simple, fun, and so much better than the options that are already out there. Thanks Lavendly!
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Lavendly is a social community for lesbian women who want to meet, connect, and enjoy meaningful evenings together. We host intimate meetups around the world, bringing together small groups of 4–8 guests in a relaxed and welcoming setting. Lavendly focuses on genuine connections, great conversation, and shared experiences. Whether you're new to a city, looking to expand your social circle, or simply want a friendly and inclusive way to meet like-minded women, Lavendly offers a warm seat at the table.
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This is a really cool way to meet new women. It's set up to be simple, fun, and so much better than the options that are already out there. Thanks Lavendly!
Great company, the lavendly team did a great job matching everyone! Restaurant was great too! Food was amazing, great service and great location
I am trying to register but I have ended locked out because of a verification loop, this would be find if there was any form of help contact, since there isn't I will never know what all the fuss is about

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I had a truly wonderful experience with Lavendly. I enjoyed the people I met so much that we stayed in conversation until the restaurant closed, and even continued talking afterward. We exchanged social media accounts and have already planned our next outing as a group.
The restaurant selection was ideal, with a welcoming atmosphere, excellent food, and delicious drinks. The four of us created an inclusive, authentic, warm, and engaging space together. Our conversation covered everything from what brought us to the city and why we chose this way of meeting new people to our relationships, parenting, professional lives, what brings us joy, and even our favorite running and workout songs.
The evening felt easy, thoughtful, and genuinely connective. A truly great experience.
My group ended up being 4 total women. We had great conversation, lots of laughter, and good food. I would recommend others to participate!
I enjoyed the restaurant. The staff was friendly and helpful. The food was delicious. I enjoyed the conversation for the most part. Because it was raining 2 attendees offered to drop me off at the T Station which was very kind. I would recommend this venue to anyone looking for an enjoyable evening.
I enjoyed the restaurant and the company. We had a great conversation.
It was my first experience and it was impressive! We had great conversations and I was delighted to meet the women and dine with them.
First time…great!!!
The experience was a wonderful experience. I was nervous at first, but they were very warm and nice. I had a good time. It was a great vibe. The food was good. The location was okay. I came all the way from Jersey. So I came over the water and I'm glad I did. And I would do it again, so if anyone out there cared to have a little community meet new people. Meet new friends. I suggest this app. The app is good.
This was my first Lavendly dinner and overall a great experience, the conversations were engaging, and everyone in the group was friendly and welcoming. It made for an easy, low-pressure way to meet new people. One constructive note: it might be nice to vary the restaurant choices going forward this one was Italian, and a bit more variety in cuisine could make future dinners even better.
Great first time and matched with amazing ladies. Will definitely book another dinner and we will surely meet again.
I didn't know what to expect but I really enjoyed myself. (I'm a senior "just" looking for friendship.) Great restaurant. 7 smart, interesting women of different backgrounds, from different parts of the greater Boston area who were willing to put themselves out there in the conversation which was pretty lively. 2 left earlier than the rest but the rest of us shared contact info. My sense is that several of us found this to be kind of "life balancing" because where we live, we are surrounded by mostly straight people and we're too old for the bar scene that doesn't exist anymore anyway. This really filled a need. Grateful.
Great way to spend a rainy Tuesday night. The company was delightful, and the food was quite good. I'm going to the next one for sure!
It was super fun! 7 women, all first-timers on Lavendly. Nice, interesting group of women. I will do it again!
What an absolutely wonderful evening. I loved the spontaneity of it all...the thrill of not knowing who I’d meet or how the night would unfold. Meeting new people can feel intimidating, especially in a big city, so it felt truly special to walk into something so thoughtfully curated just for us.
There were five of us queer women, all complete strangers, and yet the connection flowed so naturally. I was moved by how openly we shared our stories, what’s lighting us up right now, and the things that matter most in our lives. It was powerful to witness what each woman brought to the table. Everyone had something to give and something to receive. There was a beautiful sense that someone (or something) had intentionally placed us together at the right time.
I walked in feeling a bit lonely in New York, and I left full of hope and warmth. This experience reminded me how nourishing it is to be truly seen and to connect with other queer women on a real level. I can already see myself joining future dinners and can’t recommend this enough. If you’re craving meaningful connection, go. You won’t regret it.
I’m so grateful. ❤️
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