Secret Benefits Reviews 960

I've been trying SB out for a couple weeks now. Everything seems to be on the up and up. Site is well done. Billing was discreet. Talking to a few very pretty women. Met one for tea yesterday and she was pleasant but not really my type personality wise.

First if all, I Love trust pilot because it allows to to keep editing my review!! That's a great feature.
What follows is part of an earlier review i wrote of SB. Read on to get to the update.
So I've been a member of SB for maybe 3 months.
When I first joined, and paid around $200 for credits, I got a huge number of messages (over 80!) from girls who saw my profile. "OMG, this 65 year old dude is SO popular! 80 girls messaged me!!" ... And yet after I message a number of these girls back (about 15, for about $4 each message), I only get ONE reply. What?
It seems like the 80 messages to me are maybe auto- generated somehow, or why would the girls not answer me when I respond to them?
If they are real humans who read my profile, and saw my pictures, and then chose to reach out to me, why do they not respond when I "pick up the phone?"
That seems a bit odd..
And there is a financial incentive for the man to receive lots of messages since he has to pay to open each one. Ah Ha!!
The good:
They have a verification video feature which is generally good.
Also, the site seems to be closely monitored by someone. If you try to show or say anything at all implying sex, it will be removed. But they will sometimes change what you write.
Also, the billing does NOT auto renew, but you buy credits as you need them.
I have had trouble with this issue with most dating sites (tinder, plenty fish) where the auto renew is very hard to find and change.

Update May '24:
I'm not so keen on SB now.
I had a total of 2 dates form here; the first was ok, except after buying lunch and drinks, the girl asked me for 3 to 5 hundred more. I gave her $300.

My second date consisted of meeting a woman, who was actually the girl in the picture; she was pretty, and we seemed to (and so i thought) hit it off. She asked me for $150 to meet up with her, plus i paid of course for lunch and stuff.
She made sure to give me a big kiss on the lips when i dropped her off, just to hook me. And it worked, obviously. Us men are not very complicated when a pretty woman kisses us on the lips.
We went on a second date, which seemed to start out good. She said that she liked me and would like to make an ongoing arrangement with me. How about $700 for 4 meetings? Well she was very lovely, and so , what the hell, life is short. I stumbled all over myself trying to make it to an ATM. (she was a bit insistent about getting her money up front...a Huge red flag).
So i paid her the money, we went to dinner at a very expensive restaurant. She proceeded to order every very expensive item... and sent part of it back because it wasn't up to her standards...And then "oh, i have a phone call that I have to take.." And so she went to the bathroom .....and I never saw her again!
I texted her, and her phone had been disconnected.
Wow...I've been robbed.
So...that was a painful learning experience. I realized that I was very stupid in many ways...
I wanted to file a police report , altho they'd probably laugh at me; but i didn't know the girls name or anything.
...Don't get me wrong; I blame myself for being such an idiot in this situation; paying a stranger cash up front, (NEVER!) allowing her to order whatever she wanted, etc; Not getting her actual name and ID. etc.
Anyhow, i was very hurt. I emailed SB to report her. And I asked them to tell me her information so that i could report her to the police, since i was just robbed for $700.
SB refused; and told me that I needed to file an "official report" . So I asked them how to do that, and I proceeded to, but then they said that It didn't matter and they wouldn't give me her info anyhow.
This went back and forth a few times, and then I got tired of fighting with them. And i realized that 1) It was totally my stupidity, and I learned a lot from the experience.and 2) SB sucks.
But after that , i wasn't allowed to buy any more credits. But they never came out and told me that I was being frozen out; I just was. And altho my profile was still up there, I'd get nobody to like me! (unlike the initial 80) Hmmm...that's strange.
i realized that the basic premise of paying someone to act like your girlfriend is pretty iffy. Maybe it's more straightforward to just go to a sex worker.?
They have a very stupid "blog" on SB which consists of someone who calls themselves "herb rose", going on and on about "what makes her SO hot?" "What will you so with all the super hot girls?" ...and other useless themes. Rather than having some actually useful tips on how not to get ripped off or attacked, etc.
IE: What if i were a woman and I was attacked or raped by my date, would SB give me any information as to the identity of the attacker?
Anyhow; we have to be a bit vigilant in this world. I think that SB can be useful, and I think that the concept of the sugar daddy/baby thing can work...but it can much more easily NOT work.
SB was not very straightforward with me. I didn't have a good experience with them.

If a rate SB based on comparing it to the other 2 dating apps I'm also currently using, I would generally agree with the rating of 4.5 out of 5. I'm a member for a couple months now and everything you pretty much want out of a site like this is there. My 2 requests to make it better is a more precise search function and the ability to do a facetime even if for a ser short time since I don't like to take chats off the site for my own sake. I guess they could have an app in this day and age but I don't mind the mobile site and I probably wouldn't want the app on my phone anyways. I actually took the tinder app off recently because I really don't want people seeing that when I open my phone. Msin thing for me is I am meeting women from their site which is really the bottom line of what I'm on the site for.

This is a scam website and I imagine that the positive reviews have been left by their employees as well. Just look at the number of reviews which each reviewer has left (Yes,I opened up my Trust Pilot account just for the purpose of leaving this review), and you will know that all of the positive reviews have been left by people who have just opened up an account to leave a single review.

The profiles are fake and when a negative review is left on a site such as this, the website offers you Bitcoins and exchange for their removal.

You may notice that profiles use name formats such as 'ABC_123', and what the ladies are looking for are simply put down in three or four words at best, but often times stating that they are looking for 'something'.

You will most likely receive many messages from the ladies once you sign up. After you reply you will receive either a five word reply from the lady: 'Hi babe. How are you?', or a message 'What are you after / you looking for ?', after which the conversation dies. All of this is designed to use up your credits without you getting anywhere.

One would have thought that in the days of AI, the website could at least use that technology to keep a fake conversation going a bit longer, but they can't even be bothered to do that.

The saving grace is that if you write to them and complain, they will offer you Bitcoins in exchange for you removing your negative reviews.

Save yourself time and money and don't waste either on Secret Benefits.

I couldn’t login and really wanted to respond to someone I really like. Was stressed but the people from SB responded quickly to help me get in my account. Just thought to say thanks and mention how good their support is!

Good 1st impression.
Signing up was easy
Site is fast and easy to use
Seems like a lot of profiles
Not a swipe site which I like
Started first chat yesterday and going well.

This website is full of scammers and bots. It now also wants you to buy bitcoin when you want to buy credits(which you need to message and it's a lottery whether it's someone real and genuine or a bot) or when you see the site for what it really is and ask to be refunded. I bought my credits in cash and now they try and force me into making a bitcoin account because they refuse to pay me back in cash. As if you needed anymore of a reason to avoid this like the plague.

Spot on dating website.
Had a fantastic time last night on a date with a beauty named Maria.
To my surprise she is more beautiful than her photos and the chemistry was fantastic if I do say so myself.
Got a yes for a 2nd night out with her this weekend. Very pleased indeed.

2nd time I gave SB a chance. 1st time i was on a few sites and met someone on tinder but he turned out to be a waste. site seems bigger and better caliber of men now.

Super support from the SB team. Because I’ve had terrible to no support on other dating apps, I was very pleased to get a legit human get back to me promptly today.

I would like to contribute as a happy customer and regular user of the secretbenefits.com site. My experience for the past year or so using the service has been excellent, and I've been able to meet many nice and beautiful women on the site.

Fly site. Got the goods when it comes to real deal men. Free, fast, easy, but need to get on the app train.

Secretbenefits.com has been a good experience for me so far in the respect that I'm meeting women and the site functions well. Meeting women but not the love of my life yet. Strangely, my relationships end after 3 months and I'm back on the site again. Luckily credits haven't expired and no monthly fee.

I aske customer support about the fact that I had to pay to see emails from " women " that were one word " Hi ", and never heard from them again. When I made suggestions to fix issues, they booted me off the site, and I can't get back on. Do NOT spend money here ! The date of my experience may need more research, have lost some files on my computer. Additional info : SB did refund almost all of my money, so at least I got back something. However, don't dare try and complain, or you will get booted !

Been a member on Secret Benefits for 3 years off and on between relationships.

The site has changed over the years, new features, more women, but also more mainstream so probably more competition.

It’s true it can be difficult at times to get through time wasters and land a date but honestly that’s all dating sites for me.

Few things that stand out here to me:?

1. Great interface and responsive member support.

2. Lots of nice and attractive gals that can be fun, good arm candy, attentive friends, or much more if you play it right

3. Consistent action when I need companionship as long as I put myself out there and keep the convos rolling, the site has provided what I’m on there for, real beautiful women.

I just resolved a login issue that I was having with the help of the sites customer assistance.

Long time member and first time contacting them for something, so I was very impressed how quickly they got back to me and helped me resolve the issue.

I'm writing this review to thank Herb from the Secret Benefits website. I was kind of down on my luck, and came across his emails in my gmail. I found his tips, insights, and anecdotal stories to be very helpful and encouraging in finding a great woman which I'm happy to report resulted in meeeting a very beautiful woman. Everything has been going great with her and Herb deserves some of the credit.

hi, my friend recommended me to try secret benefits out bcuz my last bf was not treating me nice and I'm so happy now after meeting Brian. He is super nice to me and takes me out to nice places every weekend and this weekend we made it as official as a couple! so so happy I found out about this site!

I found there is lots to like about secretbenefits.com such as the active users, new joins, consistently operates smooth, discreet billing, and I like the credit system becsuse U lkke to come and ho in between dating new women. I can dop off and come back as I want and my unused credits are still there.

It's full of fake profiles and seems to use chat BOTS. I didn't get one reply from several people who HAD CONTACTED ME FIRST. They try to sucker you in to paying and then sucker you in to use your credits in order that you buy more. Don't be a fool. Don't register.