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Rated 4 out of 5 stars

Nordika has been an incredible, attentive, kind match-maker. The process with the dating app (hinge) has been a learning process since the whole process is a bit awkward (a third party swiping and... See more

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Rated 5 out of 5 stars

Francesca from Vida was a wonderful match maker. She sort of holds your hand when you have questions about a potential match. And professional. She made time to talk with me once a week. Wonderful exp... See more

Rated 5 out of 5 stars

ViDA Select handles the tedious and frustrating aspects of dating apps. Most of the ghosting is filtered out by the time you interact with the women. They filter for what you're looking for so you g... See more

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Rated 3 out of 5 stars

Service is ok. For the money they charge, for me, it was not worth it. Essentially all they do, is click like and chat with people on dating apps for you. Yes, there is some intelligence built in from... See more

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  1. Dating Service

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Finding your person shouldn't feel like a second job. VIDA Select is modern matchmaking for professionals who refuse to settle. We handle the searching, screening, and scheduling—you see detailed profiles and photos before meeting anyone. No blind dates. No surprises. With 16 years of experience, 11,000+ relationships, and an 82% success rate, we help you find someone worth sharing your life with. You approve every match. We handle everything else.


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Rated 5 out of 5 stars

Tara Baldwin and her team were discreet…

Tara Baldwin and her team were discreet professional and most importantly EFFECTIVE. One night, one, one date and the rest is history. We have been inseparable since.

January 10, 2024
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Thank you so much! I'm so happy you've found each other and I wish you all the best in your new relationship! Tara

Rated 5 out of 5 stars

The experience was fantastic!

The experience was fantastic! The people really make it fun, easy, and exciting!

Hayley and Barbara are the best—truly world-class! Had the best experience with those two.

February 13, 2024
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Thank you for the kind words Jake. Barbara and I thoroughly enjoyed working alongside you. Your openness to sharing feedback with the team and learning the process was wonderful. You have such a kind and genuine nature. We both wish you the absolute best and we are looking forward to updates from you! - Hayley

Rated 5 out of 5 stars

True professionals

True professionals, who deliver what they present. Very happy to recommend to anyone using Social Media as their primary means to meet.

February 12, 2024
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Hi Pat, thank you so much for leaving this review for us, which we truly appreciate. It was an amazing experience getting to know you and work with you. Thank you for being such a wonderful client. Wishing you all the best, and please do stay in touch and let us know how it goes. 🙂 Nordika

Rated 5 out of 5 stars

The entire team did a great job

The entire team did a great job. My main contact was Nordika. She was exceptional - professional, friendly, quick to respond and very helpful.

February 4, 2024
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It was such a pleasure working with you and I really appreciate you taking the time to leave this review for us. We are going to miss having you as our client, but wish you all the best for the future! Please keep in touch and let me know how it goes 🙂 Nordika

Rated 5 out of 5 stars

Skeptical at first

Skeptical at first, I was impressed with the sophistication of their service. Hayley Harper, my main contact person (the "matchmaker") was highly professional, warm, caring, and empathic.

January 26, 2024
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Mark, I cannot thank you enough for the kind words. It was such a pleasure to have the opportunity to work with you. I wish you nothing but the best always! - Hayley

Rated 5 out of 5 stars

I am so happy with Chrissy H!

I am so happy that Chrissy H. was my matchmaker during my VIDA Select experience! She was helpful, responsive, knowledgeable, and thoughtful with such a postive attitude with me. She even set up a call with me on a Sunday morning which I thought was great!

Overall, this service and experience was very helpful and I'm dating a beautiful lady I met on Match with long term expectations. I woudn't be here without VIDA Select motivating me to "get off my couch" and take action about starting a dating life. They are supportive and responsive. I'm grateful for this positive experience.

Thanks,
Captain K

November 9, 2023
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Thank you so much for sharing your positive experience with VIDA Select! It was an absolute pleasure working with you. As a Matchmaker there is nothing more rewarding than this. I wish the both of you many happy years ahead and make beautiful memories! With love, Chrissy 💕

Rated 5 out of 5 stars

Great Experience

Working with my matchmaker Nabeelah was such a pleasant experience. From setting up and confirming profile information, picking the right pictures to reviewing matches, Nabeelah makes you feel as though you are her only client! I highly recommend the service and Nabeelah!

January 10, 2024
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Thank you for the kind words! I truly enjoyed getting to know you and your positive spirit is so contagious; I was always left smiling after our calls! - Nabeelah

Rated 5 out of 5 stars

My experience with VIDA Select was great! Aeilar was wonderful! ❤️

My experience with VIDA Select was great! My recommendation is to ensure that you and the team have a clear understanding of what “you” are looking for in a soulmate in the beginning. Also, respond promptly and accurately to all emails from the team. If you follow those steps, then you will be fine!

Due to the poor dating climate during this time, I decided to utilize this service. My matchmaker Aeilar was great! Aeilar was prompt and thorough, ensuring that I received all of the needed information and my questions were answered. I also received notice of off days, and who the replacement was for that day. I highly recommend Aeilar if you can request a specific matchmaker. Overall, her and the team were wonderful!

I made a great connection through this service, and we are still communicating. The connection is getting stronger by the day, so I’m very excited about my social life this year! 😊🥰 The results will vary by person, but this was a great financial investment. I encourage all to know what you are looking for and to have an open mind. The soulmate search is a process, but if you go in with a positive attitude and make a strong effort, the reward will be worth it in the end!

December 31, 2023
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Thank you very much for your kind words and for sharing your VIDA experience.🙂 Nothing feels more fulfilling as a Matchmaker than knowing my clients are finding wonderful relationships through us. I wish you the very best and we are very happy about the connection you've made ❤️ Aeilar

Rated 5 out of 5 stars

My matchmakers Lorraine and Nordika were AMAZING!

Had an amazing experience with Vida! My matchmakers Lorraine and Nordika (worked with them both while one was on break) made a huge difference in the experience. Attentive, thoughtful, helpful when I had a wide range of questions (and I had a LOT) and very understanding. Can not speak more highly of them.

The technical set up side was a little wonky at first, but Nordika made sure nothing went up that I wasn't satisfied with so that was great, just took a bit longer. It's great to have people vetting and sourcing people for you without you having to think about it. Tough to relinquish power at first, but then it's a good thing to sit back and not get too attached.

I only stopped because I had unexpected scheduling issues that made me pause, but I'll be back. I've thankfully already had a meaningful match in one month that's worth exploring!

Definitely worth the investment! Highly recommend

January 8, 2024
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Thank you so much for your kind words! We really appreciate you! We're looking forward to your return. Hope you always take care! Lorraine & Nordika

Rated 4 out of 5 stars

4.5 stars

(This is a 4.5 star review) My Vida sherpa was great. Friendly, helpful, easy to work with, responded quickly. She gets five stars. The team working with her gets 3.5 stars — they are good, not great, not terrible. It was very helpful to have them creating first drafts of everything. But I did a fair amount of editing to get to the final profile wording. Also, the profile photos they chose were weird. No matches with the photos they selected, so I tossed out their photos and chose the photos myself. Once we got profiles set up on all the sites, everything was smooth sailing. So, so helpful to have them doing the initial outreach and banter. I don’t know how people would do all that on their own. The bottom line: Vida is 100% worth it. I’d previously spent thousands of dollars on “luxury” professional matchmakers — low yield; total waste of money. Vida worked in two months — I’m now dating someone seriously.

January 5, 2023
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We are glad you found so much value in the service, and wish you the best of luck in your new relationship!

Rated 5 out of 5 stars

What a wonderful team of Cupids

What a wonderful team of Cupids! They organised and bettered my profile and helped me throughout. I trust their whole team immensely 💕

November 8, 2023
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Thanks for trusting VIDA on your dating journey - we wish you all the best!

Rated 5 out of 5 stars

Expert to Guide You

I am really grateful for my experience working with Kedi Karlsen. From the initial onboarding call and throughout the process, I feel like I had an expert partner guiding me along the way. I felt confident in the strength of my profiles to attract the right people and appreciated Kedi's outreach to help me connect with people despite my busy schedule. I enjoyed the process and am excited about the results.

December 29, 2023
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Thank you so much for the review. I'm glad you enjoyed the service. Wishing you all the best in your new relationship. Best, Kedi

Rated 5 out of 5 stars

Shyne and her team were wonderful to…

Shyne and her team were wonderful to work with. She was very responsive and invested in my success.

December 17, 2023
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Thank you for your kind words! It's been a pleasure working with you and navigating the online dating world. I am happy about your success in finding a match with us. All the best, Kate. Cheers! - Shyne

Rated 4 out of 5 stars

Don’t do it alone!

It was time for me to connect out there but I didn’t want to do it alone. Vida Select was a great option for me. My matchmaker, Tara Baldwin, was awesome and easy to work with. She took time to get to know me and was always available to email or talk. While not perfect, anything I had a problem or question with they would explain or try to fix. If you’re very busy or just don’t want to go through this process alone, I recommend Vida Select for your “shopping” needs!😉

December 17, 2023
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Thank you so much for these kind words!! I'm so happy you enjoyed the process. Hopefully we'll connect again in the New Year if you need us. 🙂 Tara

Rated 4 out of 5 stars

If you are busy this is a great option

If you are busy this is a great option! I didn't have time to chat with numerous people and keep things going, so the team did this for me. Francesca was wonderful at keeping me updated and responding to my questions and feedback. While not perfect, they are open to feedback along the way and adjust accordingly. Haven't found "the one" but optimistic.

December 16, 2023
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Thank you for your thoughtful feedback! I'm delighted to hear that our service has been a great option for your busy schedule. Your positive outlook is inspiring, and I appreciate your openness to providing feedback. Wishing you continued success in finding "the one"! :🌟 Francesca

Rated 5 out of 5 stars

Vida Select and Kedi did an amazing job…

Vida Select and Kedi did an amazing job at helping me find people that I found attractive and interesting that ultimately lead to face to face dates. I enjoyed the process from the intake call to see if we were a fit, to the assistance of photo selection and profile construction, and all the way thru to personal advice about conversations and emotional support. I highly recommend this service to help in the dating world!!

December 14, 2023
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Hi Meo My, thanks for the review! I've enjoyed working with you and I'm glad to see that you enjoyed the service. All the best! 🙂 Kedi

Rated 5 out of 5 stars

VIDA is a very effective match make and produces great results

VIDA is a well-organized match maker company with an efficient and effective process that produces excellent results! My focal point Francesca Wright is great - she is very responsive, truly gets to know her clients and is a very insightful match maker. She literally works around the clock and my results are ample and of high-quality dating candidates. I have learned a lot about myself in what makes a perfect date thanks to Francesca. I highly recommend VIDA's services.

December 13, 2023
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Thank you for the kind words! I'm delighted to be part of your dating journey. Your kind words mean the world to me and VIDA. Cheers to more wonderful matches and insights! :🌟 Francesca

Rated 5 out of 5 stars

Give VIDA Select a try

Vida Select was a great experience for me. Like most I was starting to think of dating as a second job. The needless communication that went nowhere, the inability to think of creative banter, weeding out the wierdos..it felt overwhelming. That's where VIDA came in to help me message a number of people each week. From there, I was asked my opinion on the matches for the week. As one would expect, some I agreed to and others not so much what I was looking for. It led to several dates which I was pleased with and I am currently seeing someone based on their recommendation. Now, I do have to say that I was told they had BOTH an internal pool as well as use of the apps. However, that did not seem to be the case as ALL my matches were from the apps. Additionally, it was not disclosed upfront that you will need to pay for memberships on the apps-that's an extra 100-300/month roughly. Overall, I would do it again because I did not want any longterm contracts and it was still more affordable than other options. My matchmaker KEDI was amazing and extremely communicative. She knew exactly what I was looking for and sought those individuals out for me.

September 1, 2023
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Hi Deedee, thank you for leaving a review for us. I really appreciate this. I enjoyed working with you and helping you find your ideal match. Wishing you the very best! - Kedi

Rated 5 out of 5 stars

I'm not one for writing reviews

I'm not one for writing reviews; I like to keep my personal behaviors and purchases private. But I'm compelled to write about VIDA. It was such a surprisingly positive experience that they deserve it.

I was beginning to think the problem was me, after many unsuccessful attempts at the dating sites and, frankly, two other personal dating services. After doing my own research, I decided VIDA "might" have a different approach that was worth trying. What did I have to lose?

I spent several calls and received focused and personalized attention from Lisa R. and felt that I was heard. They had good responses to my barrage of questions and skepticism. Lisa R. was patient and professional.

Then, I was introduced to Francesca Wright and her team. I was provided with the "oh, yes, we'll do a fantastic job and you'll be very pleased" speech, and waited for them to follow through. One piece at a time, I saw their work come together. The preparation was methodical. I still had not reason to be optimistic, because anyone can put work into getting you prepared.

Then, I began to see their deliverables, from the profile writing to the photographs. Quite an improvement, still me, but a me that really captured who I am, who I believe I am, and what I really wanted to present.

Then we went to market, so to speak. And, within literally days, I started to see results. The women I was interested in talking to were not only responding, but I was being reached out to - for the very first time. In some cases, I was in disbelief, not that I don't deserve, but that I had never seen this before. Not everyone was a match, of course, but it was up to me and my new "friend" to decide that. Their initial writing got me to a point where their was continued interest and I was able to seamlessly begin meaningful conversations.

The rest is up to me, of course, as it should be. I've had wonderful real-world experiences. I could say I've found the "one" but only time will tell.

I am not a paid spokesman, ha! I am happy customer.

December 6, 2023
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Reply from VIDA Select

Thank you so much for taking the time to share your experience with VIDA. We're thrilled to hear that you found our approach refreshing and that our team could meet your expectations. It's heartening to know that the changes we made to your profile and the overall strategy resulted in many positive interactions. We wish you all the best on this exciting journey and appreciate your kind words. Here's to more wonderful experiences ahead! - Francesca

Rated 5 out of 5 stars

Vidaselect is great for choosing photos,websites,matchmaking.

Vida Select helped me pick my best photos, present them on the website and write a good profile. I got compliments on how professional my profile was.They also recommended the best websites.
My matchmaker, Shyne, worked all weekend to get my profile up on a Sunday evening. She was excellent! She gave good advice on how to handle different situations and what to wear on dates. She served as a go between for all the other people working on my team. Everyone was pleasant and helpful!

November 6, 2023
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It was a delight working with you! I am super happy that we were able to help you find your perfect match ❤️ I wish you all the best in your love journey. - Shyne

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