Do not move your parent/relative here.
Do not move your parent/relative here.
We moved our mam to Pilgrims Court 2 years ago, we have just moved her to hopefully a better place.
When we 1st looked at Pilgrims Court it was so our mam wasn’t isolated & if she needed company she could sit in the communal areas but also had a safety net if needed..Also location was great for mam she was in walking distance of shops & a good bus route.
At the time Pilgrims Court provided care, she didn’t need care but thought if/when that time came it would be there as the plan was this was her last move.. This was removed a few months later, they must have known this was happening but didn’t tell us or residents until they had to.
( They even moved someone in on the day care was removed & didn’t tell them) The rent stayed the same, we were told mam would be better off, she was £2 a month better off, told by a manger “Well she is better off isn’t she?”
Then unnecessary rules started to come in, such as day managers on duty couldn’t help support residents they charged £5 to deliver a paper to a resident who had come out of hospital & couldn’t leave her flat.
There was dish washer in the lounge residents were stopped from using it China cups were replaced with plastic. Residents have an amenity’s fund & wanted to replace the freezer as it freezes up in the communal lounge as residents are expected to defrost it themselves, have been told by managers they don’t need a new one. (Even though residents have raised money)
A lot of staff left & bank staff started English isn’t their 1st language so there are boundaries especially when dealing with older generation, day staff contact each flat in the morning to ask if they’re ok, some staff don’t speak we were told this is cultural, they won’t speak until spoken to, my concerns are what if someone can’t answer what happens then?!
My mother was interrupted in the middle of the night by night staff coming into her room, they said they’d come to the wrong flat it was a mistake. I discussed with the manger the following day & was told there had been nothing handed over & would get back to me, still waiting.
They are dismissive to concerns & not interested.
When mam put her notice into the manager the reply was “oh no not another one leaving” Not asked the reasons why she was leaving.
There was an advert a few months ago that Pilgrims Court was up for sale, we questioned this & were told it was an administrative error. I believe what they want is for people to move then say it’s not viable as a business, as it seems an expensive error.
The permanent staff who have stayed are lovely & try their best to support resident within the constraints of their contact. I’m thankful to John & I think it’s Pauline for the kindness they showed to our mam.
The building is tired & dated, the lounge is a miss match of furniture some not suitable for older people to get out.
Over the last few months a lot of residents have moved out to go to competitors retirement complex’s.
Mha should be looking at what their competitors are doing & how they are getting it right but Pilgrims Court are getting it so wrong.







