I Was Deceived After a Disturbing Incident – Women and Children Are Not Safe at Paloma Finesse
⚠️ Trigger Warning: Guest Safety / Staff Misconduct / Privacy Violation
We stayed at Paloma Finesse for two weeks — myself, my partner, two daughters, and baby son. I feel morally compelled to warn other families, women, and solo travellers about a traumatic experience on our first day, which ruined our holiday.
The first time using the women’s toilets, wearing my bikini, I was followed inside by a male cleaner. Moments later, I looked up to see a phone being held over the cubicle wall, camera pointing directly at me.
I screamed, the man fled, and thankfully hotel staff and my partner helped track him down. I identified him and the police were called. During the interview, I was denied my partner's presence and taken into a room alone with seven men. Several times, they laughed and spoke in their own language, leaving me feeling intimidated and unsupported.
Police said I could press charges, but doing so would require returning to Turkey. I was told no images were found on his phone — likely, in my view, because he had time to delete them. It was my first time using the toilets. The speed and confidence of his actions made me doubt it was his first time.
Hotel staff and the TUI rep assured us he’d been dismissed and deported. We were offered £1,200 in extras on our £8,000 trip, which seemed to acknowledge the seriousness of the incident. The TUI rep confirmed a report of sexual harassment had been filed.
But on our final day, I was horrified to see the same man — in full uniform — working at the children’s water park. He saw me and ran. We reported it, but Guest Relations became evasive, spoke in another language, and claimed the hotel manager was unavailable. We no longer felt safe and left immediately, arranging an early flight home.
I had trusted the Guest Relations Manager, Stella, who repeatedly reassured me action had been taken. It now seems I was misled. This was not a misunderstanding — it was, in my view, a cover-up that put other guests at risk.
I was later told the man was not Turkish but contracted via an external agency in Indonesia. Many staff are reportedly hired this way. If a resort outsources staff, it must properly vet them — especially when they work around vulnerable guests.
I am not sharing this to cause harm. I’m sharing it to protect others. Paloma Finesse failed in their duty of care. Women and children are not safe here.
➡️ To read the full, detailed version of this review and timeline of events, please visit my trip advisor review of Paloma Finesse.








